"Unfortunately,
although I had a lot of outward self-identity, I didn't have the
inner kind, I hadn't built that up," she explains. "My
self-worth was in someone else's hands, which is never a good idea,
because it can be taken from you at any time. And it was, and it was
shattered." - Katy Perry on Russel Brand
Ditto Katy. As pathetic as admitting that sounds. It will break you down and destroy. Reminds me of the lyrics of a song
"Wake me up when its all over,
when I'm wiser and I'm older,
all this time I was finding myself,
I didn't know I was lost."
- Wake Me Up by Avicii
Thank God we get up and learn from these things. But that doesn't mean we won't let ourselves end up in that situation back again, because we will. Just in a less stupid way this time. Perhaps that's good enough by then. Perhaps that will work.